Tips on finding practical holiday gifts for people with dementia
December 11th, 2024 by Ric Hanson
(Radio Iowa) – More than 62-thousand Iowans are living with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia, and if one of them is on your holiday gift list, some well-intentioned presents may no longer be appropriate or practical for them. Lauren Livingston, spokeswoman for the Iowa chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, says some gifts can help a loved one in the early stages of the disease continue to navigate and maintain their independence.
“Something like a label maker, so they can stay organized and keep track of everyday household items that they might have trouble remembering,” Livingston says. “Same thing with dry erase calendars to keep them organized. Also, gifts for ride-sharing if they’re not able to drive anymore, because it’s still important that they get out there and stay active and social.”
Other gifts for someone in the early stages might include a G-P-S tracker which can help to keep them safe while allowing them to stay independent, or a “memory” calendar featuring family photos and filled in with birthdays and anniversaries. Livingston says the gift of music is always a plus.
“Music can be something that helps trigger memories for people in the middle to later stages,” she says. “So putting a playlist together of their favorite artists and songs from back in the day can really help spark those memories, and it oftentimes just makes them happy or puts them in a good mood to listen to that music that they loved.” For people in the mid to later stages, Livingston says soothing gifts can help with anxiety, like a handheld massage ball, a soft blanket, or a fluffy bathrobe.
“Comfortable, loose fitting clothing that’s easy for them to get themselves dressed and not need someone else to help as much,” Livingston says. “Another thing to think about is adaptive dining accessories, so no-spill cups, plate guards, silverware with special handles that make it easier to grasp so they can be more independent while they’re eating.”
Another thoughtful gift might be framed photographs or a photo collage created specifically for your loved one, and include people’s names on the photos.
Other suggestions include: A memory phone that can store pictures with names and contact information, puzzle and activity books, card games and board games, or an outing to a movie, play or sporting event.
Find more ideas at https://www.alz.org/iowa.